At the end of the day we need someone to share our doings. We want to share our happy moments, sorrows or feelings to someone close who value for it. At a stage of life, our parents, sisters or brothers remain close person to whom we share everything but stage of life cycle changes with time and a special person or friends comes to our life. Our feelings varies and we share specific feelings with specific persons. Some feelings are worth to share with our friend, some with parents, some with our brothers or sisters or some with special ones. However, starting a new conjugal life with an unknown person is challenging for anyone initially. May be we know the person for few years before marriage but do you know that a parson may be good as your boyfriend or girlfriend but may not remain same as your husband or wife respectively. We have different look which varies to whom we are dealing with while we belong different look as a spouse, parent, friend, colleague, son or daughter, neighbor etc.
However, when you are dealing a conjugal life, understanding is very vital thing between each other. The most common thing is misunderstanding which continues for first 1 to 2 years and after that they both come in mutual naturally though maximum time one of them do more compromise who give more value for the relation. Except some cases, it is not possible to keep continue ones marriage previous independent life style in conjugal life. After marriage responsibility become double or tripled for both women and men but may be women get more loaded. In male prime countries, husband wants to dominate their wife commonly where women job choose, baby conceive, dress choice, outside going and even speak freedom remain dependent. In many cases mental unhappiness give raise bigger problems in marital life. Physical and/or sexual abuse is also not very uncommon in today’s conjugal life which give raise many unwanted happenings.
Anyone can deal a happy life if they want to be happy. Happiness comes from inner side which may rise by little doings or getting little surprises. Here some simple tricks has been shared to remain happy in conjugal life.
Give respect each other
Respect is prerequisite when you are leading a conjugal life. Do not undervalue your partner for any reason, Furthermore, encourage your partner to achieve more worth. Praise your partner achievements, good cooking, good looks and similar things.
Give some time each other
Time giving is not only giving time your partner in daily life but also giving time for your whole life. Let give your partner time for making better understanding among both of you. If you are sad by seeing any activity of your partner then you must not create a sudden reaction. Share your sad feelings by finding a suitable time for example during holiday when you are eating tea together at afternoon.
Do not take any sudden decision
It is very natural of being misunderstanding when two person remains together below a roof. Quarrel, argument, fight, disagreement may occur anytime but never made a mistake by taking any sudden decision which may can make you cry for your rest of life. Be patient because quarrel without marital life may be equal with glass without water. Quarrels makes life more beautiful in my sense.
Talk with each other to get solution
If you are not liking any of your partner activities and getting mentally depressed day by day then you should discuss the matters with your partners. But these little matters get bigger with time so make solution in time. Sometimes solution may not come by discussion but at least your partner get cautious.
Do not involve third party until it is needed
When you are leading a conjugal life there any third party involvement can make your life worst. Do not believe in other comments without listening your partner, always belief your partner first.
Travel in vacation
Traveling in new places can refresh you, revive your mind, make you forget past and inspire you to start new. So grab this opportunity of travelling with your partner.
Celebrate your life event
Your life events are very valued to both of your life. Celebrate the events with your partner. Bring surprises or go outside and call friends but do not let it go as like other days.
You want or do not want, life goes on and every day passes on its own way. Every day ends for starting a new day and never come back. So why you will waste your any precious day? Let it go what happened already and think about today always.
