Sometimes I become so much angry on him. My mind says to go away from him at that moment. I set my mind to ignore him. I do misbehave, cook poorly and talk little. But every so often I feel that he is my life. I discover that I am no one without him. Love is really hard to measure. May be he still do not how much I love him (I didn’t tell him though).
It is true that life up and down continues. At first 2 to 3 years of married life understanding attempt to build between any couple. This first 2 to 3 years are most memorable stage of life for many reasons. This is the happiest moment of life while also hard to make understanding between each other. When two different people start to live together below a roof their liking and disliking start to identify by themselves.
A husband expect from his wife loyalty, obedience, sacrifice, time and love while a wife also look for same things. The problems raise when they both desire the same things from each other. For an example, if a husband prefers that his wife will serve his parents by sacrificing her job and at the same time if his wife prefer that her husband will allow her to do job so that she can look after her family too. Therefore, they both are demanding sacrifice for their own. Here the main problem is they both love their own family and at the same time they love each other.
In point of fact, family is a bond of sacrifice of its people. A family build when a couple start to live together after marrying. Argument, egotism, affection, complaining, weeping are the part of a family life. So if you are belonging a family life you cannot ignore these things which continues till your last day of life.
Both of you are doing a lot for surviving your family perhaps stealthily. Always take any decisions by discussing with each other because unity is strength. You can do many things alone but with your partner you can make your working path easier. When you find that for any disagreement your partner is making quarrel with you then obviously you will remain calm without any argue. Talk with your partner by finding any suitable time regarding the matter and try to understand both of your logic. Make solutions of any problems rather than hanging for longer time.
But always keep in mind that your life may not give you second time for reconstructing any issues. Therefore, do not take any decisions for the reason of other persuasion and your insistence. Always take time to make any decision because time has powerful strength for solving longer problematic issues.
Make a happy and friendly relation with you husband. Always try best from your side who knows may be as a reward you can get the best gift of life.
